Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

It was 4 a.m.  Time to get up, and my youngest son was on his feet instantly.  Everything was ready by the door for Termite’s first Youth Waterfowl Day.  The early morning was dark and chilly, still and quiet.  As we loaded the boat, the gear made echoing sounds that bounced around on the camps across the bayou, intruding upon the silence of sleep.

We quietly pushed away from the dock, the engine idling at a purr, small waves rippling to the shore.  As we turned into the main canal, the lights of the local marina illuminated the water unnaturally, competing with the stars overhead.  There were so many, it seemed you could jump from one to the other without falling.

As we left the last man-made light behind, the battery-powered lantern periodically showed us the shore line and objects floating in our path.  A spotlight would have been perfect for this chore, but when Termite unplugged it from the charger right before we left, it was still “dead” and devoid of giving any light.  We continued at an idle for a bit–our eyes adjusting to the ambient starlight.

For the third time, the little lantern was called upon to show us the way.  It wasn’t until the fourth time we turned it on that it’s light began to fade, fade to nothing.  Our night vision allowed us to make out the shoreline, but not objects floating in front of us.  And being the responsible one, I made Termite turn the boat around and go back home.  Super Mom just became the Villain Mom.  We pulled out a flashlight to help us make our way back for about two minutes and again, darkness.  Another dead flashlight.

Termite informed me we had extra batteries, which I promptly changed.  This must have been one of those el cheapo flashlights, because when I opened it, the gasket, lens, and bulb all fell out and would NOT, I repeat, would NOT go back into place.  Another totally dead and useless light.

Back at home, I worked with the flashlight trying to get the batteries in, when Termite realized the lantern also used the same sized batteries.  And when he went to open it, he realized it had not been closed all the way.  Once closed tightly, it worked just fine.  We grabbed spare batteries and off we went.

It was 4:55 a.m., and we’d lost half an hour.

Could we make it to the duck lease, through the gate, through all the twists and turns in the marsh  and get into the duck blind before 5:46–a half hour before the legal shooting time?

The gate at the lease had to be unlocked with a key.  It was a precarious operation, to say the least, especially when operating a boat that does not have reverse and the tide is falling, pushing you away from the gate.  And if that seems tricky, try turning yourself  around in a small space and closing the same gate behind your boat and locking it, with the falling tide pushing you back through the gate.

Hurricane Ike had damaged the gate, and although Termite and I had hammered the boards in pretty well days before, the gate fell completely off its hinges and into the water.  There was nothing I could do but watch it sink.  Great.  Now I would have to report this little incident to the veteran hunters.   Not something I would look forward to doing.

Navigating to the lease was phase one, and pretty easy–a wide canal between two banks.  Once in the marsh,  Termite’s sense of direction and memory of what each point and turn should look like was crucial.  Further, the water was only inches deep, and a couple feet wrong in either direction could have put us aground.

My job was to shine the light on the shorelines so he could identify the points and turns, which I did not do so well.  The glow of orange eyes along the banks kept distracting me.  I let the lantern light linger on them rather than pointing ahead showing Termite’s course.  We saw at least a dozen pair of eyes watching us as we glided past–alligators lying in wait for unsuspecting prey.

He got us right to the duck blind without one error–not one shallow spot, not one wrong turn.  For a 12-year-old boy who has only been out there a half dozen times, he did a fantastic job.

Termite ran us up on the edge of the grassy mound and climbed out, quickly putting my chair in the blind.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

He decided he would sit out in the boat and hunt, letting me take photos from inside the roseau- covered blind.

Once inside the blind, I realized there was no way we could both fit in there–unless I had ear plugs and ear muffs to shield me from the sound of gunfire.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

After I sat in my chair, I began to think about how that blind hadn’t been used in a year.  Afraid to even glance around, my mind began to race with the possibility of all the creatures that could be sheltered there with me.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

The blind was a little island of roseau cane–just a spit of land about the size of a pallet.  And there I sat, on that little pallet hoping I was the only creature doing so.

But we had made it.  It was 5:50, and he could legally shoot any ducks that flew by or landed in his pond at this time.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

Termite formed a dark silhouette against the morning skyline as he watched intently for any sign of ducks, the decoys bobbing in the shallows beyond.

He sat still and quiet, like a statue, surrounded by the early morning sounds of the marsh, waiting for the ducks to land in the pond.  And then I heard it.

It sounded like the quack of a sick duck.  It didn’t sound like any one of the half dozen duck calls Termite has been wearing around his neck on an LSU-colored lanyard and blowing at full capacity for the past six months.  Rather, the sound was coming from his throat–a guttural but quick repetitive quack-quack-quack-quack-quack.

If we had not been in stealth mode, I would have blown that boy out of that boat with a voice like the Big Bad Wolf blowing down the house of straw with this refrain, “ARE YOU KIDDING ME?  YOU’VE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!  YOU’RE KIDDING ME, RIGHT?”

He can blow the come-back call.  He knows the hail call.  He’s mastered the greeting call, feeding call, teal call, and every other call you can think of.  I’ve heard them all at least a million times each over the past six months, and so has anyone within earshot.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

Yet there he was.  The morning he’s been practicing for, and Termite had forgotten his duck calls at home.  Now, that was just sad.  I was torn between disbelief at his childish forgetfulness and awe of his manliness that got us here in the dark.  Must be tough to be twelve years old.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

Termite was styling, though, in something called a “shaggy”.  Some ingenious person sewed scraps of camouflaged fabric to a decoy bag that then goes over your clothing and  makes you blend with the marsh grasses.  Pretty amazing.

As the time crept by, and the horizon turned a pale shade of pink, the wading birds flew over chatting about the day they had planned.  In the marsh grass, sounds of gallinules calling to one another over breakfast could be heard.  And off in the distance, a loan duck called from a nearby pond.  I knew Termite was wishing he were over in the next pond, but he held fast.

Don’t let anyone tell you that a very active twelve-year-old boy can’t sit still for hours–and I mean stock still.  That is what he did waiting for the chance to draw a bead on the prey of choice.  As the morning drew on, and it was apparent the ducks would not appear, Termite took a few gallinules for the pot.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

It is a well known fact that boys really want to shoot something on their first hunts.  It’s understandable.  We do not, however, condone senseless killing.  It is the way of the Houma Indians that nothing is wasted.  This is a virtue that should be passed to every young hunter–no matter the ethnic background.  A living thing should only take life to sustain life or protect it.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

After a couple of hours at the little island blind, Termite asked if we could change locations.  Sure.  What did I have better to do than be with this boy in this moment?

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

We motored into the second blind, one that accommodates a boat, and waited, Termite watching the sky like a hawk.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

When he finally decided to give up the hunt, no sooner had he unloaded his gun and laid it down, than a pair of ducks flew past within shooting range–the first pair of the day.

They were there, and then they were gone.  He missed his chance.

Determined not to miss out, he reloaded his gun and asked if we could stay longer in hopes of seeing them again.

After another non-productive half hour, he again lay down his gun as another pair of ducks flew past within shooting range.  Once again, he missed his chance.

Regretful, though not dejected, he turned to me, head down.  I expected a very childish comment laced with woe, but what came out of his mouth was,

“Mom, thanks so much for coming out here with me today”–disappointed that he missed his chance at two pair of ducks but thankful that he was there to begin with.

Boy to man.

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

Necessary items were forgotten.  Equipment malfunctioned.  Opportunities were missed.

Nevertheless, indelible memories were made on this, our first Youth   Waterfowl hunt together.

I am not a hunter.  I would much rather shoot photographs and eat vegetables.  But we are not cookie-cutter images– neither outwardly, nor inwardly.  We are individuals, and as such we must respect our differences.

Advocating hunting or indoctrinating my readers into something they don’t embrace is not my goal here.  Recognizing that hunting is one more facet of the winter way of life for Bayou People is all I purport.

One day, he may no longer be so driven by the desire to hunt; and then again, his family’s survival may one day depend on it.

For me, this hunt brought the realization that my last child is making his right of passage to manhood.  He soon will not be the little boy with long, blond curls and a lisp who shamelessly crawled on my lap to hug me.

He is a bayou boy through and through.  And if I had to choose whether he ran the streets or explored the marshes and bayous?

Our First Youth Waterfowl Day

Well, I think we all know the answer to that.


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  1. I have noticed that the paddle footed billed creatures are not very stupid. Got lotsa lakes round me they shut down fishing for shooting. Birdies pretty much leave when the fishing boats do.

    I actually saw some guys out today. On a interstate barrow pit I have never seen a duck or goose on. Ever. Pretty smart landowner or hunters who don’t do homework.

    Thanks for the report. Cheer up T. It might look like she is on your case but I figure your just smoothing some of the edges off so the rest of us have an easier time. I’ll be ‘duckin’ out now.

  2. I wish I could take my computer to bed with me. I would’ve liked to have read this story like a good book, snuggled in bed. I felt like I was there with y’all. I smiled and got choked up at different points. I can actually see you squatting in that small space watching your man-boy hoping for some ducks.

  3. It may be a little early for ducks in large numbers yet. He’ll eventually get a “foul” weather day rather than that “blue bird” day ya’ll had.

    Tell him not to be too disappointed in missing those opportunities. That is something that happens on every hunt. Kind of like fishing a rattle cork for an hour with no luck only to have it go under as soon as you look at your watch.

  4. Oh, m’ God, Wendy! The memories your posting has brought back … unreal. Hubby nor I are hunters either but I think every boy wants to at least try it. So hubby hauled himself out there with them. In spite of some of the early fiascos all three of our sons, grown men now, still hunt. When raised on the bayou that’s what they like to do. Hunt, fish, and then play. Great story, a learning experience and a wonderful memory beautifully told.

  5. Jeez……first tears from laughter, now this. Well written, BW. Why weren’t you wearing “Cajun Reebocks”? I know you have a pair. My former cajun neighbor always wore his “boo-its” when hunting or fishing.

  6. What a great story! I have never been on a duck hunt so I consider this almost as good. This is really so much a part of living in southern LA. Thanks for telling the story. Maybe this is another possibility of a book for you to author?……this could be a chapter in a book written for youth about living in LA wetlands?

  7. Ok, Blu, you’re first. Smoothing off the edges? T can smooth me as much as he wants, but I still won’t tolerate foot stomping on my boat after a missed bite!!!

  8. Choup – I do know that sinking bobber feeling quite well!!! He read your comment and is hoping it will be a “fowl” weather day this weekend when his big brothers take him.

  9. Steffi – Well, Termite was wearing my BayouReeboks because somehow his camoflauge boots disappeared! That’s one of the pitfalls of going barefoot so much- he leaves his shoes everywhere!!!

  10. Cyndi – I had a feeling you could share similar stories. Glad to bring back some good memories for you and hubby! Hope to see you soon out on the Raccourci!

  11. Kim – You just confirmed a writing idea LilSis and I were talking about last time she was down. I don’t have much time to write these days but maybe after I get my family a home to live in, I can do some serious writing. Oh, and I love the avatar. Is that Bingo?

  12. J – I love your avatar, too. What’s your kitty’s name?

    That last photo has become one of my favorites. I happen to think he’s a handsome young man, too, but I am very partial and biased!

  13. Well the long term memory is still good. I never fished out of a boat that was noisy you could stand in before that. Back doesn’t have many of those in it anymore anyway.

  14. Wendy, this indeed could be a well-crafted short story. The imagery, the emotion, the plot, and the finale are the makings of a wonderful short story. I felt like I with yall, and I was holding my breath in anticipation of whether he would get his first duck…the clincher with his thanking you, though…wow! What a way to end it all!!!

    Thanks for taking the time to do this, and truly, consider working it as a short story for publication somewhere…it’s a gem.

    Love you!!!

  15. Coming from a writer of your caliber, Vance, I consider that great advice! I will have to edit it significantly and leave out all the details of the flashlight and spotlight episodes!!!

  16. You made this old woman cry, and Im sitting at the hospital cafe computer while blowing snot!!! That is one Hell of a Mom in ANY book!!! and that pain that went through my heart as he emerged into manhood with that profoundly mature “Thank you”….to his mom…Prolly can’t come close to what you felt watching that moment freeze in time….omg..I still have a lump in my throat!…Yes, plz publish this story, Its a story that will touch many a heart, young/old, male/female…thanks for sharing it with us. Thanks for Sharing Termite with us as well.

  17. Well, Deb, first off, you’re not OLD! And secondly, your words rain warmly upon heart! Lest any of you think we are made of a richer fabric, think again. I nag Termite constantly, because he is constantly dragging stuff out and leaving it from one end of Camp Dularge to the other. He literally wears me out with his junk and changing of clothes. Believe me, that was a very rare moment of thoughtfulness which I do cherish in my heart! Special indeed! Not a moment I take for granted at all! Being a mother of a 12 year old, you can certainly relate! Thanks again for commenting and sure hope you’re feeling better.

  18. In my opinion the “key” to any good tale (whether short or long)…is that it come from the heart.

    This one was pure excellence=)

  19. DARTH???? Darth??? My dark sith lord, is that you? Thanks for popping in, like you must magically do from time to time and thanks a TON for the compliment.

    Folks, my pal Darth is one great writer—straight from the heart is pretty much how he shoots! Search for “Darth Wader” on

  20. Yes, I am a mother of a 12 year old…hyperactive ADHD, thats why the two of you touch my heart so. Ive either gonethere/donethat/prettycloselyrelatedto or yep, I see it coming down the road as well. LOL, mothering boys, its beautifully exhausting and wouldnt have it any other way.
    When you figure out how a boy can drop his drawers in the middle of the floor within an arms reach of the laundry basket, how he can eat an entire loaf of bread bought the night before because he didnt see anything else around the house to eat…(guess that dang fridge/freezer thingy was locked or missing again) AND, ……..AND, why he can’t remember to bring his school folder home to be signed, where he put his shoes, or where his house key is (#15 by now) but knows exactly what is on TV on every day of the week……, will you or anyone else out there please clue me in??? Obviously Im either older than hell or dumb as a box of rocks…Cuz it befuzzles & comfables me for sure….lol.
    …………….but I love it.